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"Auggie"
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Sep 6, 2006, 12:11 PM

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"Howard Beale" <a1695@webnntp.invalid> wrote in message
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> When I started playing in the NY clubs ~12 years ago proper pokerroom
> etiquette was expected.

I think thats the thing right there... you are looking back to 12 years ago.

Poker has gone through a big boom and became a fad to many and when that
happens (to anything, not just poker) you end up with a whole lot of new
players who have no idea what etiquette is or how they should act at the
table.

I'm not saying "I love it when these guys are at the table" or anything like
that (though I am sure there are some who will or say that it helps them
identify the fish at the table), but it has to be expected and really, with
out this huge influx of yahoos poker really wouldn't be what it is today.



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"XaQ Morphy"
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Sep 6, 2006, 12:15 PM

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> End of rant. Thanks for listening.

The problem is that people are stupid, ignorant, assholes. 12 years ago
poker wasn't as popular as it is today, so the only people playing were
enthusiasts and the tourist-y types who were still enthusiasts in their
home games but only visited casinos on vacations.

Now poker is in damn near every household. As a result, the people in
poker rooms represent all people rather than just those who were there as
they were 12 years ago. It isn't all the young people, it isn't all the
internet players, it's a mix of everything thrown together to create one
big mess of a place.

I consider myself lucky that the only card room within a reasonable
distance from me is horrible. I really like playing live poker, but if I
had to put up with some of the things described in this thread for more
than a few hours I wouldn't play and I'd find another hobby.

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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 12:50 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 9:27 AM, Kinnipak wrote:

> On Sep 6 2006 1:54 AM, Howard Beale wrote:
>
> > When I started playing in the NY clubs ~12 years ago proper pokerroom
> > etiquette was expected. There was no talking amongst players not involved
> > in the hand concerning what each active player might have. No declaring
> > what holding would be the nuts. No encouraging other players to make a
> > tough call. No coffeehousing. You were expected to act in turn and to
> > not reveal information that might aid active players in a hand. You were
> > expected to display a moderately decent demeanor and threats of violence
> > almost never occured. Why go on? Those of you who know what I'm talking
> > about know what I mean.
> >
> > Today the reality of b&m play is that all of the above no longer applies
> > to the vast majority of players. They are constantly declaring that they
> > had one of the cards when the flop comes paired or they bang the table or
> > make some other gesture. If they are told that they shouldn't do it they
> > say 'I didn't say anything!' or 'So what, they don't care about those
> > little cards!', etc. Coffeehousing is rampant. Asking to see mucked
> > hands over and over to gain information is standard. Players often
> > declare what the nut holding would be and tell other players that 'the pot
> > is so big, you have to call.' I'm witnessing more frequent invitations to
> > 'go outside' and outright threats. When threats are made what does the
> > floor do? They tell the parties involved to calm down. I think they
> > should be thrown the hell out. The list is endless. The thing is is that
> > I'm tired of being the table captain. Whenever I bring any of these
> > things up I'm regarded as a crank or worse. The dealers are almost no
> > help whatsoever. The other day a player folded his hand in a three way
> > pot saying 'I don't think she has the flush but I can't call.' Turning to
> > the remaining player he repeated 'she doesn't have the flush' over and
> > over. Naturally the third player called and won. The bettor was upset
> > and after a few minutes of lambasting the talker the dealer finally
> > managed a lame 'she has a point'. 10 minutes later this same bettor
> > pounded the table when a flop came paired. Just try and represent one of
> > those cards if you want to run a bluff.
> >
> > Sure, this is a rant, and I know many of you don't do these things and
> > others of you think some of these things are no big deal or are part of
> > the game but I for one have given up trying to maintain what should be
> > basic standards of b&m conduct amongst players who either don't know 'the
> > rules' or don't care. Most players don't care. Dealers (mostly) don't
> > care and management doesn't care. Casino Arizona took a stand a couple
> > months ago by eliminating the IWTSTH abuse. The new rule was that you had
> > to call a floor person over and explain why you wanted to see a mucked
> > hand. That new rule lasted a day or 2.
> >
> > There is a new paradigm and I don't think anything can be done about it.
> > Today's players, be they new to the game or influenced by the yakking
> > braying clowns on TV or internet players who haven't been raised on what I
> > think is proper etiquette just don't know or care. I'm just going to have
> > to live with it, take advantage of whatever information is revealed (after
> > all most players aren't paying much attention) and keep my mouth shut.
> >
> > End of rant. Thanks for listening.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > Howard Beale
>
> Of course that's just your opinion, you could be wrong....
>
> but of course, you are not... :-)
>
> I agree with everything you wrote. I can't imagine someone posting
> something that would be against what you are saying here. How anyone can
> advocate such lunacy at the tables is, well, a lunatic you might want at
> the table...
>
> Question:
>
> Would it be reasonable to approach the floor B4 you sit and play and ask
> them the rules are regarding table etiquette? What steps are in place to
> enforce the rules? Would this put the floor on notice that they had better
> keep an eye on things? It might label you as a grouch or a grump, but what
> the hell? The other player punks are going to call you that anyway, so you
> might see what the floor will do for you...and the others at the table...
>
> Just a thought.

The floor people always acknowlege the way things should be. There is one
fellow (and I'm sure the others would also) who assures me that if another
player keeps asking to see my hand he'll put a stop to it. They'll stop
the other abuse also if called over (as I urged that woman player to do in
my OP) but that's all ad hoc. I would like to change the culture. As if
I were capable of doing that!


I'll try again. I'm going to suggest they print a pamphlet on player
etiquette and actually go around to the tables and hand them out. That's
my fantasy. At the limits I play, 8-16 mostly, I still don't think there
is any stopping what I'm complaining about. It also works both ways
sometimes. I gain information that other players (who don't pay attention
don't). There are so many players who don't know when it's their turn,
don't know who raised (they even ask when HU) that they probably don't
notice the person banging the table or shaking their head.


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"John A. Fish"
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Sep 6, 2006, 1:54 PM

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Is this something that has just erupted recently or something that has
been slowly building. Or could it possibly be a regional thing? I
played at an Oregon Indian Casino recently and, other than the
occasional personal insults (which I rather enjoy) I saw none of which
you speak. No intentional plays out of turn, no hand revelations, no
IWTSTH abuse. Just bad players with shades and lots of them, some with
tatoos.

- J. Fish

Howard Beale wrote:
> When I started playing in the NY clubs ~12 years ago proper pokerroom
> etiquette was expected. There was no talking amongst players not involved
> in the hand concerning what each active player might have. No declaring
> what holding would be the nuts. No encouraging other players to make a
> tough call. No coffeehousing. You were expected to act in turn and to
> not reveal information that might aid active players in a hand. You were
> expected to display a moderately decent demeanor and threats of violence
> almost never occured. Why go on? Those of you who know what I'm talking
> about know what I mean.
>
> Today the reality of b&m play is that all of the above no longer applies
> to the vast majority of players. They are constantly declaring that they
> had one of the cards when the flop comes paired or they bang the table or
> make some other gesture. If they are told that they shouldn't do it they
> say 'I didn't say anything!' or 'So what, they don't care about those
> little cards!', etc. Coffeehousing is rampant. Asking to see mucked
> hands over and over to gain information is standard. Players often
> declare what the nut holding would be and tell other players that 'the pot
> is so big, you have to call.' I'm witnessing more frequent invitations to
> 'go outside' and outright threats. When threats are made what does the
> floor do? They tell the parties involved to calm down. I think they
> should be thrown the hell out. The list is endless. The thing is is that
> I'm tired of being the table captain. Whenever I bring any of these
> things up I'm regarded as a crank or worse. The dealers are almost no
> help whatsoever. The other day a player folded his hand in a three way
> pot saying 'I don't think she has the flush but I can't call.' Turning to
> the remaining player he repeated 'she doesn't have the flush' over and
> over. Naturally the third player called and won. The bettor was upset
> and after a few minutes of lambasting the talker the dealer finally
> managed a lame 'she has a point'. 10 minutes later this same bettor
> pounded the table when a flop came paired. Just try and represent one of
> those cards if you want to run a bluff.
>
> Sure, this is a rant, and I know many of you don't do these things and
> others of you think some of these things are no big deal or are part of
> the game but I for one have given up trying to maintain what should be
> basic standards of b&m conduct amongst players who either don't know 'the
> rules' or don't care. Most players don't care. Dealers (mostly) don't
> care and management doesn't care. Casino Arizona took a stand a couple
> months ago by eliminating the IWTSTH abuse. The new rule was that you had
> to call a floor person over and explain why you wanted to see a mucked
> hand. That new rule lasted a day or 2.
>
> There is a new paradigm and I don't think anything can be done about it.
> Today's players, be they new to the game or influenced by the yakking
> braying clowns on TV or internet players who haven't been raised on what I
> think is proper etiquette just don't know or care. I'm just going to have
> to live with it, take advantage of whatever information is revealed (after
> all most players aren't paying much attention) and keep my mouth shut.
>
> End of rant. Thanks for listening.
>
>
>
>
> Howard Beale
>
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>
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"DennisP"
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Sep 6, 2006, 2:09 PM

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John A. Fish wrote:
> Is this something that has just erupted recently or something that has
> been slowly building. Or could it possibly be a regional thing? I
> played at an Oregon Indian Casino recently and, other than the
> occasional personal insults (which I rather enjoy) I saw none of which
> you speak. No intentional plays out of turn, no hand revelations, no
> IWTSTH abuse. Just bad players with shades and lots of them, some with
> tatoos.
>
> - J. Fish

I wonder if some of it is a Casino AZ thing as well. I've played in
Los Angeles, New Orleans, Vegas, AC, Foxwoods and others and have never
been asked and think I've seen it done maybe once or twice.

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guy
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Sep 6, 2006, 2:38 PM

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On Sep 5 2006 11:54 PM, Howard Beale wrote:

> When I started playing in the NY clubs ~12 years ago proper pokerroom
> etiquette was expected. >

> End of rant. Thanks for listening.
 
>
> Howard Beale

Yes, I miss the "good old days" of Poker--just ask Bill Hickock. I remember the
miserable, dying, smokey poker rooms of the 90's filled w/ old, cantankerous
geezers and biddies. No wonder Poker rooms where closing in Las Vegas before the
"boom."

Now, unfortunately, too many young jaggoffs who have watched too many episodes
of the WPT are now playing. I'm amazed at how many times I've been threatened
(and I'm not a small person) by young idiots.

Bottom line: The dealers and the floor staff must remind the players, especially
new players, of proper etiquette and strictly enforce the rules. This includes
discouraging the "Unabomber's" antics or other idiots' behavior at the WPT and
the WSOP. Otherwise, there will be total anarchy.

That said, I don't have an overly pleasant memory of the "good old days."
Poker and gambling has always attracted the more unpleasant elements of society.

May you NEVER "seven-out,"   ...*guy...



 

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"alan"
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ashaw@jetson.com

Sep 6, 2006, 3:07 PM

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"enough to make me not bring the bottle of Grand Marnier that I'd like to
bring"

Drink thiers for free. Why bring your own?


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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 4:42 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 1:07 PM, alan wrote:

> "enough to make me not bring the bottle of Grand Marnier that I'd like to
> bring"
>
> Drink thiers for free. Why bring your own?
>
>
> Alan


No free booze in Arizona. Sigh. You should see some of the BJ players
when they're told that they have to pay for their drinks. Discount 'drink
tickets' ARE available but only a limited number.


HB

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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 4:50 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 12:09 PM, DennisP wrote:

> John A. Fish wrote:
> > Is this something that has just erupted recently or something that has
> > been slowly building. Or could it possibly be a regional thing? I
> > played at an Oregon Indian Casino recently and, other than the
> > occasional personal insults (which I rather enjoy) I saw none of which
> > you speak. No intentional plays out of turn, no hand revelations, no
> > IWTSTH abuse. Just bad players with shades and lots of them, some with
> > tatoos.
> >
> > - J. Fish
>
> I wonder if some of it is a Casino AZ thing as well. I've played in
> Los Angeles, New Orleans, Vegas, AC, Foxwoods and others and have never
> been asked and think I've seen it done maybe once or twice.


Been asked what?

You've played all over and you never notice players reacting to the cards
that get dealt in a manner so clear that you know they would've hit the
flop or who abuse IWTSTH or act out of turn? Or goad and demean other
players? And esp. not in LA for heaven's sake? LA, the home of the
bitter poker burn-out? Maybe I'm too touchy/sensitive but when some
blow-hard causes some tall, strong kid (happened the other day) to offer
to beat him up and nothing happens, I think things have gone too far.


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ashaw@jetson.com
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Sep 6, 2006, 4:51 PM

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" No free booze in Arizona. Sigh. "

Ahhh, bummer. I am primarily an AC guy so I take the free booze for
granted I guess. I didn't realize there are casinos that didn't offer
free drinks.


Alan

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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 4:52 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 2:51 PM, ashaw wrote:

> " No free booze in Arizona. Sigh. "
>
> Ahhh, bummer. I am primarily an AC guy so I take the free booze for
> granted I guess. I didn't realize there are casinos that didn't offer
> free drinks.
>
>
> Alan


IIRC, you can't get free drinks in LA card rooms either.



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"DennisP"
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:00 PM

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Howard Beale wrote:
> On Sep 6 2006 12:09 PM, DennisP wrote:
>
> > John A. Fish wrote:
> > > Is this something that has just erupted recently or something that has
> > > been slowly building. Or could it possibly be a regional thing? I
> > > played at an Oregon Indian Casino recently and, other than the
> > > occasional personal insults (which I rather enjoy) I saw none of which
> > > you speak. No intentional plays out of turn, no hand revelations, no
> > > IWTSTH abuse. Just bad players with shades and lots of them, some with
> > > tatoos.
> > >
> > > - J. Fish
> >
> > I wonder if some of it is a Casino AZ thing as well. I've played in
> > Los Angeles, New Orleans, Vegas, AC, Foxwoods and others and have never
> > been asked and think I've seen it done maybe once or twice.
>
>
> Been asked what?
>
> You've played all over and you never notice players reacting to the cards
> that get dealt in a manner so clear that you know they would've hit the
> flop or who abuse IWTSTH or act out of turn? Or goad and demean other
> players? And esp. not in LA for heaven's sake? LA, the home of the
> bitter poker burn-out? Maybe I'm too touchy/sensitive but when some
> blow-hard causes some tall, strong kid (happened the other day) to offer
> to beat him up and nothing happens, I think things have gone too far.
>
>
> HB
>
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Oops, I missed a few words. I meant to say I haven't been asked to
show a hand I was mucking at showdown. I've seen all the other stuff
and agree with you. Although, I didn't see it near as bad at the
Venetian or Wynn.

Los Angeles and Foxwoods have been the worst, AC not great.

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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:00 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 2:56 PM, minus200(DELETETHIS) wrote:

> POST OF THE YEAR WINNER !!! !!
>
> Every poker room manager, dealer, and floor people should be required to
> read this THREE times. In one of my post recently, I talked about
> players not having fun and this is part of the problem
>
> A couple of years ago, without meaning to I slowed rolled a hand. The
> dealer dressed me down about it and quickly too. Before the next hand I
> made an apology to the player and the table. When the dealers down was
> over I left the tabled and in private thanked him for doing his job. He
> was amazed. I then went to the manager and told him what a fine job his
> dealer had done and John was amazed that I had said anything. If
> dealers did this every day in every poker room then things would be much
> better
>
> again - nice post Howard (new record coming)


Thank you for the complimentary remark.

I did the same thing you did when I saw, finally, a dealer tell people to
keep quiet during the play of a hand. I told the floor person, and then
another, who said she'd bring the topic up for discussion at the next
dealer meeting. I also complimented the dealer right then and there,
loudly, so that the other players might better understand the point. But
there is no change. I'll probably hear from some of the lurkers here who
play higher as to whether or not these are problems in those games as well.


HB



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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:06 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 3:00 PM, DennisP wrote:

> Howard Beale wrote:
> > On Sep 6 2006 12:09 PM, DennisP wrote:
> >
> > > John A. Fish wrote:
> > > > Is this something that has just erupted recently or something that has
> > > > been slowly building. Or could it possibly be a regional thing? I
> > > > played at an Oregon Indian Casino recently and, other than the
> > > > occasional personal insults (which I rather enjoy) I saw none of which
> > > > you speak. No intentional plays out of turn, no hand revelations, no
> > > > IWTSTH abuse. Just bad players with shades and lots of them, some with
> > > > tatoos.
> > > >
> > > > - J. Fish
> > >
> > > I wonder if some of it is a Casino AZ thing as well. I've played in
> > > Los Angeles, New Orleans, Vegas, AC, Foxwoods and others and have never
> > > been asked and think I've seen it done maybe once or twice.
> >
> >
> > Been asked what?
> >
> > You've played all over and you never notice players reacting to the cards
> > that get dealt in a manner so clear that you know they would've hit the
> > flop or who abuse IWTSTH or act out of turn? Or goad and demean other
> > players? And esp. not in LA for heaven's sake? LA, the home of the
> > bitter poker burn-out? Maybe I'm too touchy/sensitive but when some
> > blow-hard causes some tall, strong kid (happened the other day) to offer
> > to beat him up and nothing happens, I think things have gone too far.
> >
> >
> > HB
> >
> Oops, I missed a few words. I meant to say I haven't been asked to
> show a hand I was mucking at showdown. I've seen all the other stuff
> and agree with you. Although, I didn't see it near as bad at the
> Venetian or Wynn.
>
> Los Angeles and Foxwoods have been the worst, AC not great.


Actually, I was considering excepting Wynn and Venetian in my OP (I don't
play much at Bellagio) because there were FAR fewer cases of all of my
complaints in those rooms but I have only a visitors' experience in them.
It could be that the culture and management in those 2 are the exact
things that I would like to see. Good call on those poker rooms.


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Peg Smith
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:17 PM

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"Howard Beale" <a1695@webnntp.invalid> wrote:

>IIRC, you can't get free drinks in LA card rooms either.

Nor in Washington State, nor in most of the reservation casinos around
the country. Now that I think about it, it seems that Nevada and
Atlantic City are the only places that *do* have free booze?

Peg
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Corinthian McVitie Keogh
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:22 PM

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Costing the net hundreds if not thousands of dollars, Peg Smith said:
> "Howard Beale" <a1695@webnntp.invalid> wrote:
>
> >IIRC, you can't get free drinks in LA card rooms either.
>
> Nor in Washington State, nor in most of the reservation casinos around
> the country. Now that I think about it, it seems that Nevada and
> Atlantic City are the only places that *do* have free booze?
>
> Peg
>
Don't even think about it in the UK. It's only recently you've been
allowed to take your drink to the tables at all, and even now it mustn't
touch the gaming tables, has to stay to a side table.
--
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Kenneth Sloan
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:33 PM

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Porsche_Dan <43080932@recpoker.com> writes:

> Another guy thought he was the amazing Kreskin and kept guessing hands, even
> when he wasn't involved.

Let me guess - Bay 101?

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"minus200(DELETETHIS)"
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Sep 6, 2006, 5:48 PM

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POST OF THE YEAR WINNER !!! !!

Every poker room manager, dealer, and floor people should be required to
read this THREE times. In one of my post recently, I talked about
players not having fun and this is part of the problem

A couple of years ago, without meaning to I slowed rolled a hand. The
dealer dressed me down about it and quickly too. Before the next hand I
made an apology to the player and the table. When the dealers down was
over I left the tabled and in private thanked him for doing his job. He
was amazed. I then went to the manager and told him what a fine job his
dealer had done and John was amazed that I had said anything. If
dealers did this every day in every poker room then things would be much
better

again - nice post Howard (new record coming)


Howard Beale wrote:

> When I started playing in the NY clubs ~12 years ago proper pokerroom
> etiquette was expected. There was no talking amongst players not involved
> in the hand concerning what each active player might have. No declaring
> what holding would be the nuts. No encouraging other players to make a
> tough call. No coffeehousing. You were expected to act in turn and to
> not reveal information that might aid active players in a hand. You were
> expected to display a moderately decent demeanor and threats of violence
> almost never occured. Why go on? Those of you who know what I'm talking
> about know what I mean.
>
> Today the reality of b&m play is that all of the above no longer applies
> to the vast majority of players. They are constantly declaring that they
> had one of the cards when the flop comes paired or they bang the table or
> make some other gesture. If they are told that they shouldn't do it they
> say 'I didn't say anything!' or 'So what, they don't care about those
> little cards!', etc. Coffeehousing is rampant. Asking to see mucked
> hands over and over to gain information is standard. Players often
> declare what the nut holding would be and tell other players that 'the pot
> is so big, you have to call.' I'm witnessing more frequent invitations to
> 'go outside' and outright threats. When threats are made what does the
> floor do? They tell the parties involved to calm down. I think they
> should be thrown the hell out. The list is endless. The thing is is that
> I'm tired of being the table captain. Whenever I bring any of these
> things up I'm regarded as a crank or worse. The dealers are almost no
> help whatsoever. The other day a player folded his hand in a three way
> pot saying 'I don't think she has the flush but I can't call.' Turning to
> the remaining player he repeated 'she doesn't have the flush' over and
> over. Naturally the third player called and won. The bettor was upset
> and after a few minutes of lambasting the talker the dealer finally
> managed a lame 'she has a point'. 10 minutes later this same bettor
> pounded the table when a flop came paired. Just try and represent one of
> those cards if you want to run a bluff.
>
> Sure, this is a rant, and I know many of you don't do these things and
> others of you think some of these things are no big deal or are part of
> the game but I for one have given up trying to maintain what should be
> basic standards of b&m conduct amongst players who either don't know 'the
> rules' or don't care. Most players don't care. Dealers (mostly) don't
> care and management doesn't care. Casino Arizona took a stand a couple
> months ago by eliminating the IWTSTH abuse. The new rule was that you had
> to call a floor person over and explain why you wanted to see a mucked
> hand. That new rule lasted a day or 2.
>
> There is a new paradigm and I don't think anything can be done about it.
> Today's players, be they new to the game or influenced by the yakking
> braying clowns on TV or internet players who haven't been raised on what I
> think is proper etiquette just don't know or care. I'm just going to have
> to live with it, take advantage of whatever information is revealed (after
> all most players aren't paying much attention) and keep my mouth shut.
>
> End of rant. Thanks for listening.
>
>
>
>
> Howard Beale
>
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Gary Carson
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On Sep 6 2006 5:33 AM, Tanya AKA MissT74 wrote:

>
> are the ones that are to be expected to train their staff (dealers) properly
> and
> then punish the dealers that don't follow the rules.

Who do you think deserves punishment more?  Dealers who don't follow the rules? 
Or drivers who don't follow the rules?


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"Howard Beale"
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Sep 6, 2006, 6:15 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 3:22 PM, Corinthian McVitie Keogh wrote:

> Costing the net hundreds if not thousands of dollars, Peg Smith said:
> > "Howard Beale" <a1695@webnntp.invalid> wrote:
> >
> > >IIRC, you can't get free drinks in LA card rooms either.
> >
> > Nor in Washington State, nor in most of the reservation casinos around
> > the country. Now that I think about it, it seems that Nevada and
> > Atlantic City are the only places that *do* have free booze?
> >
> > Peg
> >
> Don't even think about it in the UK. It's only recently you've been
> allowed to take your drink to the tables at all, and even now it mustn't
> touch the gaming tables, has to stay to a side table.
> --
> 2 pair is not the hand to die with in PLO in a multi-way pot on a
> coordinated flop.
>
> [steve1127 on rgp]


I've heard that player behavior is much better in the UK. Can you confirm
this? I've heard stories about American players getting a little lecture
before they sit down to make sure they understand what isn't proper
etiquette.



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Sep 6, 2006, 6:27 PM

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Howard Beale wrote:
> On Sep 6 2006 1:44 AM, arlo payne wrote:
>
> > The good news is some of us still pack a 38 in our boots and there is plenty
> of
> > open land in Arizona,
>
>
> There are more and more occasions occuring when I wish I was a tough guy.
> Just let me be a tough guy a few times. But I'm a creampuff, there's no
> help for it.
>
>
> HB


Reminds me of an incident at the Desrt Inn in the early 90s.

I had met some friends there for dinner and afterwards I was in the
casino watching, from a distance, an orietal looking gentleman playing
some very high stakes blackjack. A rather small individual with what
seemed to be his wife sitting next to him watching. It looked rather
obvious that the table was for him exclusively.

After a little while some bleached blonde, California beach bum, body
builder looking type guy in a muscle shirt sat down at his table.
Nothing was said, but the oriental gentleman pulled his chips from the
betting area and just sat quietly, allowing beach bum to play.

After losing a hand or two, muscle head starting making remarks about
the other gentleman not wanting to play with him. A few insults and
accusations that the oriental fellow must think he was too good to play
with Americans, that soon turned into threats by beach bum.

He then threatened to drag the oriental gentleman outside and, well you
can imagine.

The entire episode progressed without the dealer or pit bosses saying
anything. Actually, what seemed strange is that all of the casino
employees had these wide grins on their faces.

The oriental gentleman, who hasn't even acknowledged muscle head to
this point, finally turns his head halfway towards his irate foe, and
smiles himself. At this, beachbum jumps up, knocking over his chair and
steps back, motioning the oriental fellow to come on and step outside,
saying "lets go".

What happened next was like something right out of the movies.

The woman gets up and step about 5 feet to the other side. The oriental
gentleman turns to his left towards muscle head and steps down from his
chair.

The moment that his second foot reaches the carpet, like out of
nowhere, he is surrounded by two other gentleman in black suits. If
these two guys were an inch tall, they were 6'9" and shoulders so wide
that it looked like they would have a hard time fitting in the
elevator. It became instantly obvious why the dealer and other floor
persons were just smiling. not a word was spoken by the two bodyguards.

The only words spoken at that point came from muscle head. He addressed
the pit boss, asking if he would call security to escort him to his
car.

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Sep 6, 2006, 6:39 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 5:17 PM, Peg Smith wrote:

> "Howard Beale" <a1695@webnntp.invalid> wrote:
>
> >IIRC, you can't get free drinks in LA card rooms either.
>
> Nor in Washington State, nor in most of the reservation casinos around
> the country. Now that I think about it, it seems that Nevada and
> Atlantic City are the only places that *do* have free booze?
>
> Peg

Tunica, Shreveport and the St Louis boats are places that I have had
complimentary drinks. Hell they Ilse of Debris across from Helena Ark had
an open bar, just tip the tender, didn't even have to be playing, we
always stopped there on the way back from Tunica to top off our tanks.

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Tanya AKA MissT74
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Sep 6, 2006, 9:47 PM

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On Sep 6 2006 3:14 PM, Gary Carson wrote:

>
>
>
> On Sep 6 2006 5:33 AM, Tanya AKA MissT74 wrote:
>
> >
> > are the ones that are to be expected to train their staff (dealers) properly
> > and
> > then punish the dealers that don't follow the rules.
>
> Who do you think deserves punishment more?  Dealers who don't follow the
> rules? 
> Or drivers who don't follow the rules?

They both deserve their punishment fairly. Driver's who don't follow the rules
get their punishment in the form of tickets and dealers should get their
punishment in the form of reprimands and possibly termination.

Nice try Gary, darlingggg.

T

>
>
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>
>



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Gary Carson
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Sep 6, 2006, 11:01 PM

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I fake that tell all the time.  It's fun.


On Sep 6 2006 9:39 PM, minus200(DELETETHIS) wrote:

> This is the most reliable "tell" in poker
> and the player is not inthe hand
>
> H
> >
> > You've played all over and you never notice players reacting to the cards
> > that get dealt in a manner so clear that you know they would've hit the
> > flop
> >
>
> --
> MINUS200
>
> "Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention
> of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but
> rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, scotch in the
> other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming
> "WOO HOO what a ride!"
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Sep 6, 2006, 11:45 PM

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This is the most reliable "tell" in poker
and the player is not inthe hand

H
>
> You've played all over and you never notice players reacting to the cards
> that get dealt in a manner so clear that you know they would've hit the
> flop
>

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